I Was Catfished By My Bestfriend! – Full Story With Screenshots (NSFW)

Hi everyone!
Today is my first Crazy Life Story blog post!

As you probably already know from my YouTube and Instagram, I was Catfished a few years ago by my best friend.

Let’s start from the beginning.

Me and a guy who I’ll call Greg (that’s not his real name) were very close friends through school. I would spend most days with him and I felt that I could trust him, he was almost like a brother to me at the time. I didn’t think he would ever lie to me or keep things from me and he would come over to my house to watch movies.

He asked me to be his girlfriend a few times and I always said no, and one day he told me that he had a new girlfriend.

She was called Abbie and she was sick with cancer but was set to recover. He wanted his friend and his girlfriend to get along so told me that I should start to talk to her.

She didn’t have any social media so would contact me through his Facebook, and we became really good friends very fast. We spoke 24/7 all day every day.

For about a year or so we’d make plans to meet and her appointments or illnesses would get in the way and we never got to see eachother in person, but we shared all of our info and details with eachother, even things I would’ve never told Greg. For example about my boobs, or about periods, and general “girly” stuff about makeup.

One day she got very sick and sadly she passed away, and I was heart broken. She even left me her jewellery and a message to say that I was her bestfriend. I felt awful because I had never got the chance to meet her in person of over Skype and I felt like I hadn’t tried hard enough.

Greg was with her when she died in hospital, so I supported him and was there for him whenever I could be. He cried a lot and so did I.

A year or so passed and by this point I had a boyfriend and hadn’t spoken to Greg for a while. Until, one day he messaged me to say he had a new girlfriend.

Her name was Sarah and she was from China. She was staying at his house (which is only a few minuets walk away from mine) so I’d be able to visit her.

This time she did have social media accounts and we started to talk via them, always complimenting eachother.

She would upload pics of bras, selfies of herself and photos of Greg either asleep, working, or in her dresses as a joke.


However with this new girlfriend, things suddenly became very sexual very fast. And any time I asked to meet up or make plans, she was too busy with Univeristy or her job or her strict parents.

She would always ask for my personal details about inappropriate subjects and would brag about her sex life with Greg. And since she was giving me her personal details, I felt like I had to give her mine in return as I felt I could trust her.


She would also always tell Greg how much she loved him on Instagram, which he would reply to, and was very open about their relationship details.

One day she was offered her dream teaching job in china and had to leave, so she moved back there. I was really upset and I felt like I’d lost my best friend all over again!

Everything was pretty relaxed for a while until one day Greg told me that Sarah’s sister was sending him half naked photos! So I checked them out and realised that they were 3 completely different Asian women.

I assumed automatically that the sister was catfishing Greg, as he never would have lied to me.

So I searched the images on google and found that they were on an Asian porn site..

That’s when I started to get suspicious and searched Sarah’s selfies too. Which is when i discovered a girl named Sandy…

Everything started to unravel and I felt like I was going to be sick! Every single photo I searched it came up with a random google image photo that had been stolen or cropped!


I felt violated and had never been so angry and shocked in my entire life. So I confronted Greg. And at first he denied it all! Until finally he cracked and admitted that the entire relationship was a lie.


THEN he said that he’d never lie about cancer and that Abbie was real and actually did die. So I decided to play a game of my own and lied. I told him that my aunt works at the morgue and could tell me if someone with her name died on that day, and finally Greg caved in and told the truth (kind of). He told me that his dads death when he was a child made him like this and that he was in therapy and his therapist was okay with what he did. But I was also in the local therapy system and my therapist told me that no therapist would allow it to happen.

He’s also lied to many people about different ways his dad has died. (although this dad did genuinely pass away)

After this I thought he’d learnt his lesson but a year or so later I found out that he’d been doing the same to one of my old school friends and also convinced her that he had cancer! The friend found out the truth about him after watching my YouTube video about this situation!

He was obsessed with me and since then I’ve cut off most people from my life. I find it very difficult to trust people online and in real life as I never know what to believe.

I spoke to the girl who’s selfies were stolen to let her know what happened and she said she’d rather have her photos and name hidden .

The experience really messed me up a lot for a little while, but now I’ve learnt to be more careful online!

Thank You for reading my blog post and I hope that this encourages you all to be safe online!

Best wishes ~ Becca x

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